Bringing up past mistakes or wrongdoings can lead to further tension and may not be relevant to the current issue at hand. Instead, try to focus on finding a solution that works for everyone moving forward.

This can give everyone involved time to cool down and reflect on the situation. It can also give parties time to consider their own thoughts and feelings and come up with potential solutions. Ultimately, handling disputes in your family requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to work together. By communicating effectively, focusing on the present and future, finding common ground, seeking mediation if necessary, and taking a break when needed, families can work through their disputes and come out stronger on the other side. Remember, family is important and worth the effort it takes to resolve disputes and maintain healthy relationships.